Purpose and Vision in Life

Are you clear about your purpose in life? Do you have a vision?

Seeing the future we want is part of human genius.

All things are created twice. We create them first in our minds, and then we work to bring them into physical existence. By taking control of our own first creation, we can write or re-write our own life scripts, thus taking some control and responsibility for the outcome.

So, you need to ask yourself: what would the future look like if you attained what you set out to achieve in full? Here it is recommended that you let your imagination run riot; write it all down in gorgeous 3-D technicolor detail, as elaborate as you like.

We call this the “Future Perfect” (a grammar expression, meaning “will have happened”). But here it’s just a pun, meaning how to have the perfect or optimum future. You need to be able to conjure it up into words and images.

It should excite you, even thrill you, to contemplate it. In fact we can go further and say if your future perfect visualization doesn’t enervate you in this way, there is something wrong. Either your purposes and goals are confused, or your future perfect doesn’t really relate to them properly. In other words it isn’t “perfect” and you should get it corrected.

There is nothing worse in life than to waste time on something that doesn’t give you energy and commitment. Living your purpose should make you feel glad to be alive and full of vigor and determination, every day. This is practically religious in intensity, never mind mere fame and fortune! Continue reading

Happiness is the journey but where to?

There’s a great saying by the Dalai Lama: happiness is the journey, not the destination. It rightly emphasizes that happiness can never be postponed; you don’t wait for something to happen, in order to become happy.

In fact people who think only: “I’ll be happy if she changes her ways,” or “I’ll be happy once I’m rich,” are never going to be happy. Fact.

Relying on outside sources to be happy is a sure way to postpone happiness forever!

Real happiness, real contentment, is enjoying your journey towards some desired goal.

I love riding steam trains (it’s a thing I’ve had since I was a kid, OK?). But I couldn’t care less where we are going to! I love the sound of the engine, the smell of steam and hot oil, the rumble of the trucks and carriages… It’s the journey that inspires me! That’s my idea of steam happiness.

But of course, the train has to be going somewhere. So the destination comes into it. It’s the same in life. Continue reading